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| A thought and view from the ride home |
September 4, 2006 12:22 |
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Matt
back in the rocks |
........know you're out there........
........watch over us, buddy........
Love Matt |
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| thinking of Paula |
August 12, 2006 21:35 |
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Elsabe
Haines Junction, Yukon |
I was a co-worker, neighbour and friend of Paula's for several years in Banff. She was a really special person to me, a real bright light. She had that unique spark of life that drew so many of us to her. I so respected and enjoyed her unquenchably positive outlook in the face of many painful challenges throughout the years I knew her.
I still frequently think of her, even though I now live far away in the north. Her spirit continues to live on in beautiful and unexpected ways. This weekend she was on my mind, and I thought of these lyrics, to a song about Northern Ontario that we listened to frequently while working together:
"Firewood, smoke and oranges, path of old canoe;
I would course the inland ocean to be back to you;
No matter where I go to, it's always home again;
To the rugged northern shore, and the days of sun and wind;
And the land of the silver birch, cry of the loon;
There's something 'bout this country, that's a part of me and you."
[Ian Tamblyn] from 'Woodsmoke and Oranges'.
Paula also enjoyed the music of David Carter and Tracy Grammer, particularly a song called 'The Mountain'. David himself predeceased Paula by two years, and the lyrics to his song 'When I Go' give me comfort when I'm missing her. I hope they'll do the same for Paula's family and many friends:
" . . . . Sigh, mournful sister, whisper and turn,
I will rattle like dry leaves when I go;
Stand in the mist where my fire used to burn,
I will camp on the night breeze when I go;
And should you glimpse my wandering form out on the borderline,
Between death and resurrection and the council of the pines;
Do not worry for my comfort do not sorrow for me so,
For your diamond tears will rise up and adorn the sky beside me, when I go."
[David Carter] from 'When I Go'.
Journey well, sister.
Els |
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| very Paula |
June 6, 2006 08:54 |
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les
oz |
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That is true generosity. YOU GIVE YOUR ALL, AND YET YOU ALWAYS FEEL AS IF IT COSTS YOU NOTHING.
- Beauvoir |
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| singing out the windows in t.o. |
May 7, 2006 02:48 |
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les
oz |
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it's a long long road
it's a big big world
we are wise wise women
we are giggling girls
we both carry a smile
to show when we're pleased
we both carry a switchblade
in our sleeves
tell you one thing
i'm gonna make noise when i go down
for ten square blocks
they're gonna know i died
all the goddesses will come up
to the ripped screen door
and say,
what do you want, dear?
and i'll say,
i want inside...
- ani, "if he tries anything" |
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| Helpful quotation |
May 3, 2006 17:29 |
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Christie
Canmore |
"Loss becomes fullness. Despair empties into an unquenchable thirst for life."
- Gretel Ehrlich |
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| Happy Birthday Paula |
April 27, 2006 10:14 |
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Rhonda
Calgary, AB |
Dear Paula,
miss you..think of you...maybe I'm crazy but it helps to still talk to you...in my own quiet way...your spirit lives on sweetheart. Today there will be many who pause to remember you and your great strength, grace and beauty. Your gifts were many. You touched so many lives in deep and meaningful ways during your short stay on this earth. Blessed are those who knew you. Today I will honor you dear friend.
I think you will like this poem from William Wordsworth:
"Therefore I am still
a lover of the meadows and the woods,
and mountains; and of all that we behold
from this green earth."
Peace and love, Rhonda |
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| the long journey |
April 21, 2006 20:21 |
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me
oz |
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there comes a time when weary travellers need a rest from the journey
Rumi |
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| we met here |
April 4, 2006 07:31 |
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me
oz |
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in my dreams |
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| to the rescue |
April 3, 2006 11:28 |
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les
oz |
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Paula to the rescue on Norquay |
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| paula's hobo friend |
April 3, 2006 11:26 |
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les
oz |
awww... love this pic
(Alaska) |
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| rain, snow, or ice, Alaska is nice |
April 3, 2006 11:22 |
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les
oz |
"you set sail
and you left this town..." |
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| totally paula |
April 3, 2006 11:17 |
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les
oz |
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Alaska |
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| My 57th Birthday Card (2003) from Paula |
February 13, 2006 17:25 |
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Dad
OZ |
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DAD!
Just wanted to tell you:
How special I think that you are.
How specal I am because of you!
How much I appreciate everything thing you do for me.
And, how much I love you.
Love Paula.
I love & miss you so much Paula....Dad |
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| Seeing Sisters |
February 9, 2006 22:59 |
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Pam
Vancouver, B.C. |
Paula smiled so huge, the days before Lesley came to visit. Everyday leading up to it, she'd, without prompting, say, "My sister is coming to visit." That was it. Just a simple statement - so full of love and excitement.
Lesley, it said you were everything to her. I think of you often when my sister visits me. |
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| Your in my thoughts |
December 14, 2005 10:40 |
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Dave
Calgary, ab |
Paula;
I'm not one for showing my emotions, but here goes...
You're in my thoughts every day, and I'm a better person having known you. The thing is, I didn't realize how much of an effect you had on my life until a couple of days ago. I was in my office, after having lunch with the gang at the round table. Your picture was on my monitor when Cydnie came in. I've always wondered what kids remember, and now I know. Cyd took one look and got excited. I had tears of joy, as I remembered how you sat on that fitball, with her on your lap, bouncing around and teaching her Hi-Fives (which she gives to everyone if they ask!). You will always have a special place in my family. |
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| memories |
December 12, 2005 23:46 |
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Sarah
Canmore |
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It has been a day filled with wonderful memories of you Paula. So many people are connected through you today...everyone is remembering your big hugs, your "you rock", your determination, your talent, your friendship and your inspiration. You are VERY missed. |
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| I Miss Your High Fives! |
December 12, 2005 18:54 |
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Heather
Calgary |
Paula,
I remember when I heard about what happened. I was too far away that day, living in Australia for a year. I needed one of your high fives that day, and many other days when I thought about you. It's been a year but I still think about you and your crazy high fives all the time. You still inspire me to keep improving. I miss you. Lots of love,
Heather :) |
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| Thinking of You |
December 12, 2005 12:27 |
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Stephanie & Jeff Acton
Calgary, AB |
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It has been a year but we still miss you every day. You continue to inspire and guide us. Although there are so many happy memories, it would be so nice to see you and hear your voice just one more time... |
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| We Remember Paula.... |
December 12, 2005 01:09 |
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Jacqui & JD Esler
Calgary |
We Remember Paula.
Take Care Friend.
You are in our thoughts and in our hearts.
Always,
Love, Jacqui & JD |
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| Patagonian Wind |
December 11, 2005 11:40 |
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Christie Pashby
Bariloche, Patagonia |
Hola Paulita!
Max and I were up at the stupa, a Buddhist monument that a venerable Tibetan lama consecrated here last Sunday (photo attached). I spent the weekend in retreat with him and thought of you often.
Max and I took a moment by the stupa, set high on a mountainside overlooking our beautiful little town and the wide open lake, and sent our thoughts your way. The trees rustled and we felt your presence in the wild Patagonian wind, gently rubbing our shoulders with compassion, and consuelo that you are okay.
I miss you but you continue to inspire.
Christie |
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